• Aeri@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    Kinda fucked up how people basically ignore the fact that we do genital mutilation in America.

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        7 days ago

        Its actually hurtful to watch the strong opposition to cirumcision involving girls yet barely any opposition involving boys. It looks like another take on sexism and like one commenter said, it makes it more difficult for trans people.

        Circumcision for both genders should only be a medical decision, not a thing you or your parents decide just because.

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    8 days ago

    if you lost a whole inch from your circumcision, they did it wrong.

    that said, when I was around 18 or so, I really had it out with my parents over circumcising me. at 47, I’m still unhappy about it.

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      8 days ago

      So, if you’ve every had to clean out the inside of your son’s penis, you might feel a little bit differently. Circumcision was considered a standard hygienic practice for decades. There are some marginal benefits to health and safety, particularly wrt transmission of STDs. But given the modernizations in health and safety (particularly condoms and milder skin-friendly soap) it definitely feels archaic.

      I’m circumcized. I don’t think it’s a big deal. My son isn’t (largely at the objections of my wife who was much more anti-circumcision than I am). So far, he hasn’t seemed to mind having a foreskin. It strikes me as something people just like to get mad at. It has no discernible impact either of our lives, except in the case where I’m giving him a bath.

      Compared to, say, the consequences of laws around abortion or modern contraception or vaccination, this seems trivial to the point of being a deliberately engineered distraction.

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          8 days ago

          Naturalistic fallacy aside, I missed that mark when I got corrective surgery for scoliosis. I’ve also got a few tattoos and piercings that any proper orthodox Jew would find abominable.

          My son spent three months in the NICU and had I don’t even know how many medical interventions during that time. His “perfectly natural unmutilated body” would have been a 1.5oz corpse.

          We’re both way past circumcision as the defining issue of our lives.

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            8 days ago

            But the point is you wouldn’t tattoo your child before he is of age and without consulting him. This practice is not necessary

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              8 days ago

              you wouldn’t tattoo your child before he is of age

              I would not wait for my son to turn eighteen if he needed a medical alert tattoos to avoid an EMT accidentally killing him.

              Maybe you would. That’s your call as a parent.

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                7 days ago

                What the hell? Why are you suggesting I would let my child die if they needed medical treatment. You might have your own opinions about circumcision but lets keep discussion civil. I’m just saying that most circumcisions done right after birth aren’t done out of medical necessity and I would alter the body of my child because they wouldn’t be able to reverse it if they ever wanted to