• fenrasulfr@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    Always wondered if men, women, trans (whoever you you want) actually enjoyed doing it, looks like it is more like work than actually enjoying the experience.

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      2 hours ago

      It depends. It’s not usually like in porn (which usually looks like work because it is)

      If it’s with people who want to have mutual enjoyment in a caring way it can be amazing, but even one selfish person can bring the whole thing down and make it feel like a chore.

      Men are more likely to be selfish.

      I got paid a lot of money once to go dogging, and it was very unpleasant and not worth it. Meanwhile, a weekend-long foursome with 3 other women is one of my most cherished memories and a go-to to think about if I feel the need to Jill off.

      Now I’m older I don’t think I’d want to do more than a threesome with two women, though. It takes a certain amount of fitness that I just can’t maintain any more.

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      6 hours ago

      I’ve had a bunch of group sex (cis bi male).

      Nowadays I’d not be into it, but at the time it was fun.

      i slightly skew towards preferring women but the best group sex I had, and the kind that i felt most comfortable was all men.

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        5 hours ago

        Okay, I have only ever been with one partner and always felt way out of my depth soo I can’t really imagine to stress of having to pleasure or getting pleasure of multiple partners.