• KuroiKaze@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    There’s a lot of women who cannot cum when their mentality isn’t perfectly aligned which means when they don’t feel themselves they don’t want sex.

    For men sex is generally more stress relieving and affirming so when they are not feeling great they want it more.

    Also women have “responsive desire” where unless they are approached and engaged they never even think about sex.

    This creates a lot of marriage wreckage I’ve seen.

    • Donkter@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      Also these “jokes” come from the long history of women having to marry for status/stability instead of being able to think about their own attraction.