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the experiences of boys and girls in society aren’t comparable.
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this post is about girls, going “but what about the boys?” on it is just misogyny.
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cause traditionally/stereotypically feminine things are seen as stupid, useless, and cringe while masculine ones are seen as serious, deep, and respectable.
trans people also show that being a man is seen as an “upgrade” while being a woman a “downgrade” (trans men don’t get a fraction of the hate trans women do). same thing with tomboys-femboys.
plus, a man and woman could do the exact same thing (being assertive for example) & the perception will be different (woman - bitch, man - boss).
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•belt tight around my neck being pulled back hard in doggy >>>
75·5 days agodisclaimer: any activity involving choking should not be taken lightly.
a collar and leash is also way safer than a belt.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
81·5 days agoin March, I made a post on asklemmy about going on a date with a '93 guy (date ended up not happening) and oh boy did i get flamed.😭
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
171·5 days agothat’s exactly what I’m doing rn, living my daddy fantasy this summer. plus, I asked my dad to set me up with someone, so the guy I’m seeing is vetted and my dad knows him well, which makes me feel super safe and comfortable. i’ll probably get hate for this on here, but it is what it is.😌
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my current daddy fling born in the 1970s
15·5 days agoit’s crazy on the opposite end too cause wdym someone born in 1990 is old enough to be my dad (i’m a Feb 2008 baby). that’s so recent and most of my favorite celebrities are from that era and I don’t see them as old😭
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
533·6 days agomy guess: for men, even little things such as seeing boobs (especially in real life) is “taboo”/exciting. so their idea of “perverted” is pretty tame.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
627·6 days agoa self proclaimed kinky guy told me that me rimming him is “too much” for him. wdym too much that’s super basic😵💫
All the Blackpink members come from wealthy families. I don’t know why people keep trying to portray them as self-made🥴
for me: intense, heavy fullness and a deep, rhythmic pressure in the pelvis + indirect hitting of vaginal nerve endings from behind (A-spot).
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
10·9 days agofinding men is easy. I could have a new one every day without putting in any effort if I wanted to. besides, I’m not looking for anything serious right now, I’ve just been having fun and enjoying a few flings since my breakup.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
22·9 days agohahaha, no. the trip ended and we parted ways. and they weren’t Vietnamese, lol. I actually didn’t even fuck any locals while I was traveling, the bodyguard duo kept me dicked down well enough.
I do have a new man now, though, and let’s just say I’m currently living my daddy fantasy. not gonna expand on it for now because I know people on here are gonna flame me for it, lmao.🫣
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
14·9 days agothat’s the meaning of this post🙂↕️
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
411·9 days agofingers crossed i don’t get bullied off the platform again for no reason at all😭

fem guys already relate to content targeted toward women since their lived experience is closer to that than to the typical man, so no exclusion.
men often do this. post is about something women related -> “but what about the men?”. we don’t have a duty or obligation to include men in every single conversation. men can also create their own content/conversations, and they should. hijacking/inserting themselves just reeks of insecurity and misogyny.
edit and just to be clear: anyone who finds this post relatable is more than valid and welcome, regardless of gender. it’s just the act of explicitly turning it into a “won’t somebody please think of the men?” thing that really grinds my gears.