This question was inspired by a meme I just saw, and my longtime crush on Brad Pitt, who’s 45 years older than me.

Youngest: my age. Oldest: if it’s someone in as good shape as Brad Pitt, the sky’s the limit.

  • YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I’m curious - why would you never go younger than yourself, but don’t have an issue with the older person going decades younger for you?

    EDIT - just found out your 17 which changes things. I’ll get my coat.

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    7 days ago

    Half your age plus 7 is an okay rule for finding the floor. Don’t aim for the floor. Plus 10 is less eyebrow raising.

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    7 days ago

    I used that formula to half-jokingly look for a partner on my blog. And it worked. I was 22 and she was 27. “So old!” I thought back then. Didn’t help that she sent me a really ugly blurry photo. Still, I was desperate and liked our conversations.

    Now we’re married and laugh about that “huge age gap”.

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    7 days ago

    Holy shit. You’re 17. The hilarity of all the guys thristing after your content is disturbing. And all your bragging about everything you do seems incredibly creepy now.

  • DagwoodIII@piefed.social
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    7 days ago

    Dave Chappell iirc

    The Muslims say that the right age for a couple is the wife is half the husband’s age, plus seven years.

    In Hollywood, it’s half the husband’s age, minus seven

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      7 days ago

      What happens a year later when the wife’s age no longer fits the formula because she doesn’t age at half the rate that he does?

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    7 days ago

    when I was 39, I dated someone that was 23. Never again. If I were to date again, 10 years older or younger would probably be my limit. Ideally, 5 years would probably be the best dating pool.

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    7 days ago

    No one. People of any age creep me out when I think about dating them.

    If they are significantly older, I think it’s like dating one of my parents.

    If they are a lot younger, it seems like dating someone who could be my child (if I had one).

    If they are within a decade or so of my age, it would be like dating one of my siblings.

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      7 days ago

      Honestly… That sounds more like a case for therapy. I mean, if you’re asexual or something similar, fine, but otherwise, it really seems like you have some mental connections that are holding you back when it comes to dating.

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        7 days ago

        It was a joke. Many people probably agree with the first two parts. The sibling bit was supposed to be the punchline.