• CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Men of Lemmy who fuck women, why do so many men just not use their fingers for penetration at all even when performing oral?

    • In my case, I’m just too into what I am doing with my mouth and tongue, and she hasn’t asked me to do more. I guarantee if y’all, whoever or whatever you are, speak up and ask for something, it has a greater chance of being done. You’re already getting freaky; you shouldn’t be embarassed to make requests.

    • Impound4017@sh.itjust.works
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      2 days ago

      Nobody gave us an instruction manual, and many dudes are afraid of just straight up asking about their partner’s preferences, for some reason. Likely they don’t want it to look like they don’t know what they’re doing, even if it turns out they don’t.

      Also, some probably (wrongly) think that’s what their penis is for, so what’d be the point?