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Cake day: January 30th, 2025

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  • calling squirting “comprised of some pee” is a little disingenuous, when the bladder can hold 200-400ml of liquid and the female prostate (aka skene’s gland) can hold, generously, 2-4ml (you can read about it in depth in this recent study, which is quite a good read! https://www.researchgate.net/publication/359790472_Female_ejaculation_and_squirting_as_similar_but_completely_different_phenomena_A_narrative_review_of_current_research) even if you’re not precise about how many mls of fluid are expelled during a typical squirt, one would be hard pressed to conclusively state that less than the majority of fluid in a squirt didn’t originate from the bladder. the paper talks about the question of whether or not it’s precisely urine, but the tl;dr is basically that it’s not not urine (more dilute and/or slightly different compositions of urea, creatinine, and uric acid)

    speaking from personal experience, at least… as much as i wish it weren’t the case, it’s piss :')

    but THAT’S FINE. we don’t need to be in the business of shaming folks for unintentional (or intentional!) emissions of piss during sex! and drawing the line at “squirting (in people with vulvas) is fine because it’s not all piss” is kind of silly because it’s not necessarily going to just be piss from someone with a penis either, and there are for sure women/people with vulvas out there for whom it is just piss, and they’re catching strays here. this is not the pro-feminist stance you think it is

    as long as it’s as consensual as you can make it (e.g. if you know for sure it’ll happen ahead of time, inform your partner(s); if you didn’t expect it or think it would happen, that’s the price of admission! things happen), we have no business judging someone for how their body behaves during sex

    (directing this to you, but also the other comment on this post, but there’s a lot of information about squirting i wanted to write out, as well. it’s been a subject of my fascination for a few years, and some of the newer research is really interesting to read)



  • damn like… i get it and the meme’s not wrong, but i think a lot of it is so cool. how the circulatory system went (evolutionarily) from being “just squirt blood on all the organs” to the elegant, efficient tube-based system we have. like, it’s kind of insane we have tubes routing blood to our entire body, everything in it, and coming back to a central point

    or how there are so many parts of our body that just have a natural microbiome that we coexist with. like we have our own little slice of like… world, inside us

    (poop is kinda gross tho, i can’t lie)


  • Unless there’s an expert who can tell me that no, if they’re diagnosed that way they have to be that way, in which case I’d question them as an expert. The brain is complex.

    do you not think it’s rude to tell someone who identifies a certain way, that they might change their mind? do you not think it’s rude to act like an expert on their experiences, more than they are? do you not think it’s rude to act like their opinion on themselves only has merit if science backs it up, but act like your opinion is somehow above that standard?

    when someone identifies as a different sexuality, as a different gender, it’s polite to give them the basic respect of acknowledging it. any of these things may change, and it’s OK if it does, but it’s very rude to point that out, as if they’ve never had that thought. it’s also invalidating - consider telling a trans person they might reconsider their gender. identification along the aro or ace spectrums deserves the same respect

    respectfully, i would ask that you stop commenting on this situation, and reconsider whether your advice is actually contributing positively to the conversation