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The gatekeepers of these spaces are not meaningfully different from reddit.
I came to this space in November of 2024.
As a trans person I wanted community. So I checked out blahaj first. But, the queer community here is controlled by Ada who bans anyone she doesn’t like and i ticked her off once by not bowing to her judgement when it came to allowing trolls to stay in the space. This drama also splintered the 196 community, and neither 196 space has had the same number of participants since.
So no more queer community for me. I’ve had to get that other places like Tumblr.
I then decide to use the .db0 community to report what I feel is abusive behavior from .blahaj staff and after enough time they realized that they really don’t like people using the “report abuse community” to report abuse of specific spaces like blahaj. Banned for using the space for what it was created for.
So no more .db0
I’m just so tired of using this space, it feels just like reddit except there’s somehow even less accountability.
Every week i feel less and less compelled to contribute
I used to enjoy posting like a dozen memes a day and now I don’t post anymore. It’s not fun it’s a chore to keep feeding memes and engagement into this space that pretty much only has told me it hates me for the last year.
Bad app :c
I have tried for over a year now to make this space enjoyable, and I’m kinda done.
Every time I open this app there’s some random redditor shitting on every post and comment I make in good faith.
This is a negative dopamine loop app. The only enjoyable part of it is trolling the peanut gallery.
And as long as I can get positive dopamine loops from other social media then lemmy is just inferior as a place to spend time.
I’ve tried bringing up these complicated issues in the spaces we are encouraged to talk about them (.db0) and was banned for not complaining about the same things the mods cared about.
Every week i contribute less to this space, i really wanted to support a reddit alternative, but this place doesn’t look like it will be much different.
I think Lemmy will be a good lesson for why reddit turned out how it did, feels like the beginning of a familiar cycle
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World News@lemmy.world•Trump Accuses Colombian President of 'Making Cocaine,' Urges Him to Watch OutEnglish
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's it going to take to truly stop the US?
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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World News@lemmy.world•China says it cannot accept countries acting as 'world judge' after US captures MaduroEnglish
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Who is going to be the next Pres of Venezula after all this US stuff?
01·6 months agoOne of Maduro’s cabinet
Maduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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World News@lemmy.world•Venezuela Live Updates: Trump Says U.S. Will ‘Run the Country’ After Capture of MaduroEnglish
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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World News@lemmy.world•'We are going to run the country': Trump says U.S. will govern Venezuela until there's a 'proper transition'English
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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World News@lemmy.world•Trump says US will be ‘very strongly involved’ in Venezuela’s oil industry after military attackEnglish
01·6 months agoMaduro and Trump are friends
Maduro gets to escape his country and save face instead of being assassinated or executed.
Trump gets to manufacture a conflict so he can start martial law and become a dictator, and to distract from us learning he came inside little girls.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•The whole "toilet seat up, toilet seat down" gender debate could be solved by everybody putting the seat and lid down.
01·6 months agoAnyone who cares this much about toilet seats isn’t worth associating with
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is there a real, actually working way to earn money online without having a job?
01·6 months agoMaybe human trafficking?
Inb4 fascists’ bad faith comparisons to involuntary forcefem/forcemasc.
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World News@lemmy.world•Protests as newborn removed from Greenlandic mother after ‘parenting competence’ testsEnglish
01·10 months agoIt’s not a problem if we want to be serious about the issue, governments regulate it and we support sensible regulations as voters.
Yes I understand not everything works as planned in politics, but that’s how it’s done.
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World News@lemmy.world•Protests as newborn removed from Greenlandic mother after ‘parenting competence’ testsEnglish
01·10 months agoIMO you shouldn’t be allowed to have kids until you’ve proven you can raise them to live a healthy life in our society.
I’m done letting just a creampie be the test for parenthood.
If we want to responsibly control our populations to be sustainable then we have to transition to a different system of checks and balances for population.




.ml and hexbear are literal troll farms