Sometimes it is just a really intense garden.

Ah yes. And Twisted Teas are or can be, “hard” (containing alcohol, much like “hard alcohol”).

An issue with post-interstate USA is the ability to move away from family for education and work, also fragmented the extended family. Managing life, everything and a under-6 month old infant takes way more than two people. (Day care in many areas will accept an infant at 6 weeks, which while huge, is also problematic.)

I expect the only solution is get rich and help your kids with the grand kids. (UBI!)

None of this is an excuse to fuck off and not help. It is pathetic when men say “and I never changed a diaper”. Hardly a parent at all at that point.

… Can’t let black people build something nice.

Not OP, but random human.

Glad you tried the “YOLO Wikipeida”, and are sharing that fact as it saves the rest of us time. :)