I know they’re not a magic pill, but I’ve been in relationships in the past and they were the happiest times of my life. At least the better ones were; the rest didn’t last more than a few months each.
It’s been a few years since my last relationship though, and I don’t think I’ll ever find one again. My life has spiralled, society has become increasingly hostile, I’ve basically fully isolated myself and stopped even trying to socialize.
I’m getting older, I’m slipping mentally. I don’t think I can put in the effort it takes to build a relationship again in the early stages; let alone the effort (and risk) of finding someone to even build a relationship with in the first place. And it’s not like it’s a matter of more effort = success anyway. I stopped making an effort because it was always leading to dead ends and rejection.
I have not seen the show you’re talking about. I don’t really watch reality tv. Or tv in general. I don’t have any streaming services. And even if I did, I wouldn’t want to torture myself by watching other people find love and happiness.
Maybe we’re similar and maybe we’re different. It’s hard to know just from a few comments. I’ve stopped believing there’s “a good match” for me out there though.
It’s not that I’m losing hope. I lost hope long ago. Since then I’ve just been learning to live without hope. I don’t need to torture myself by trying to restore it.
I dont watch reality TV either normally but in this case, I did, since it was about people on the spectrum and I found that very interesting.
They were going on dates and talked about how they were thinking and the show had a lot of heart and warmth that I really liked. Its not a typical ego based show. But of course you know yourself if you want to watch it or not. :)
I know they’re not a magic pill, but I’ve been in relationships in the past and they were the happiest times of my life. At least the better ones were; the rest didn’t last more than a few months each.
It’s been a few years since my last relationship though, and I don’t think I’ll ever find one again. My life has spiralled, society has become increasingly hostile, I’ve basically fully isolated myself and stopped even trying to socialize.
I’m getting older, I’m slipping mentally. I don’t think I can put in the effort it takes to build a relationship again in the early stages; let alone the effort (and risk) of finding someone to even build a relationship with in the first place. And it’s not like it’s a matter of more effort = success anyway. I stopped making an effort because it was always leading to dead ends and rejection.
I have not seen the show you’re talking about. I don’t really watch reality tv. Or tv in general. I don’t have any streaming services. And even if I did, I wouldn’t want to torture myself by watching other people find love and happiness.
Maybe we’re similar and maybe we’re different. It’s hard to know just from a few comments. I’ve stopped believing there’s “a good match” for me out there though.
It’s not that I’m losing hope. I lost hope long ago. Since then I’ve just been learning to live without hope. I don’t need to torture myself by trying to restore it.
Fair enough. :)
I dont watch reality TV either normally but in this case, I did, since it was about people on the spectrum and I found that very interesting.
They were going on dates and talked about how they were thinking and the show had a lot of heart and warmth that I really liked. Its not a typical ego based show. But of course you know yourself if you want to watch it or not. :)